this is a tremendously helpful dialogue...
Posted by Alissa on May 23, 2002 at 20:40:35:
In reply to: I'd love some advice on this... posted by Alissa on May 23, 2002 at 16:09:58:I want to thank everyone who has responded so far, and I am carefully
considering what each person's saying. In my heart I know there's
room for negotiation on the issue ... he is saying "never," and I'm
saying "always," -- so somewhere between the 2 surely there will be a
compromise that we can both live with.
In the meantime, I think I will just book no home appointments until
he and I have come to an agreement we can both live with. And make
sure the issue *does* get discussed, not forgotten.
I hope more input continues to come in. The more I've considered it,
it's one issue that many of us face and deal with uniquely in each
situation. Gleaning the best of each solution to adapt to our own is
probably a good dialogue for a community of artists to have.
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