Re: Help.Posted by Sarah B. on September 15, 2001 at 19:02:48: In reply to: Help. posted by Khoa on September 15, 2001 at 07:27:43: I know exactly how you're feeling,Khoa, I had a major emotionalbreakdown Tuesday night, crying uncontrollably and all, the only thing that kept me even remotely sane was that my bf was on the phone. I seriously was choking on my sobs and couldn't control myself. To a certain point I was afraid my roommate would have to go get our residence life advisor and get me to a hospital and sedated. So, I know how you're feelin. The key is to do things that will help you to deal. DON"T be alone. Get together with some friends, talk. TURN THE TV OFF!!! I found that I got so much better when I turned it off and just turned it on every couple of hours for updates. Do some henna... I did my palm (pics posted further down the page) in symbols for wisdom, peace, and love. Make a prayer flag... take a long hot shower, take a walk outside... celebrate that you are alive. You can't dwell on it... I was and it drove me to break down. Even now though when I think about how many people died right there on the television right before my eyes, I can't help but get tears in my eyes, and my heart sinks, but you can't let it consume you. Go shopping, get some things to send to the workers... someone on here posted a list of what they need... and ship it off. You have to live. I've dealt with a lot of loss this past year, and I can tell you that simply going on is all you can do. We all love you here on the forum and God loves you too. Trust in Him. If you need me you can email me I also have msn messenger, ICQ, and AOL messenger, if you email me, I'll send you the nicknames. All my love, and blessings, Sarah B.
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